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Destiny Is Debatable Podcast | John B. Grimes

 

 

 

Destiny Is Debatable is a podcast about what happens when life doesn't go according to plan—and what we choose to do next.

Hosted by author and meningitis survivor John B. Grimes, the show brings together conversations about resilience, disability, purpose, family, creativity, unexpected change, and the wonderfully unpredictable business of being human.

Some episodes are thoughtful. Some are funny. Some go places neither John nor the guest expected. That's part of the point.

Because destiny may be influenced by circumstance, luck, loss, timing, faith, and forces beyond our control. But the way we respond is still ours to debate.

Don't wait to start building your life into the one you want.

 
 
"Surviving meningitis turned out to be the easy part—so easy that I'd done it in my sleep.
The seemingly impossible part was living after surviving meningitis."
 

JOHN'S MENINGITIS STORY

 
 
 

About the Host

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John B. Grimes

Author, Speaker & Meningitis Survivor

John B. Grimes is an author, speaker, meningitis survivor, advocate, and nonprofit leader whose work centers on resilience, disability, purpose, and what happens after life refuses to follow the plan.

At nineteen, John survived bacterial meningitis after eight days in a coma. He woke to profound vision loss, neurological complications, and a future that looked nothing like the one he had imagined. Rebuilding his life required learning to navigate disability, independence, work, relationships, and identity in entirely new ways.
Those experiences became the foundation for his memoir, Destiny Is Debatable, and the Destiny Is Debatable Podcast, which he hosts and produces. John is also Executive Director & Co-Founder of Shots 4 Meningitis, where he works to increase meningitis awareness and prevention while bringing the survivor perspective into the conversation.

Across his writing, speaking, podcasting, and advocacy, John explores resilience without platitudes, adaptation without pretending loss doesn't matter, and the choices that shape a meaningful life after circumstances change it. His guiding belief is simple: survival isn't the end of the journey—it’s just the beginning.