When the Goal Feels Too Big
.:: By John B Grimes
Have you ever stared at a goal so big it felt impossible? I’ve been there. Whether it’s rebuilding after a setback, chasing a dream, or simply getting through the day, the enormity of the task can feel paralyzing. But here’s what I’ve learned: you don’t tackle the whole mountain at once—you take it one step at a time.
I learned this lesson firsthand while helping a friend tackle her debt. She was overwhelmed, staring at what felt like an impossible number. Together, we discovered the concept of Baby Steps (thanks, Dave Ramsey!) and focused on starting small. She tackled her smallest debt first, and the relief she felt from crossing it off was incredible. That little victory gave her the confidence and momentum to move to the next one. As the snowball grew, so did her belief that she could actually make it to the finish line.
Watching her progress reminded me that the key to any big goal is just that: progress. It’s not about doing it all at once—it’s about committing to one small step at a time and letting success build on itself.
When the goal feels too big, focus on the step right in front of you. Each small action builds momentum, and momentum is what gets you closer to where you want to be.
What’s one small step you can take today toward a bigger goal?
John B Grimes
Host
One of the lucky ones, John miraculously survived meningococcal disease (bacterial meningitis) as a sophomore in college. John’s body endured considerable trauma that was mostly healed with physical therapy. But, neurological dysfunction and blindness are permanent reminders of his battle with meningitis.
To spread awareness John is an active advocate with meningitis organizations and shares his unique survival story and journey on his podcast, Destiny Is Debatable with a mission empower people to be successful regardless of their circumstances.
John motivates with a message full of impact that is universally understood. "The filter through which you view your circumstances is most certainly up to you. Whether you wake up in your own bed tomorrow, in a luxury suite at the Ritz-Carlton, or in a hospital, don’t wait to start building your life into the one you want. Waiting is like being at the DMV: your future seems to be in the hands of the apathetic (doctors with poor prognoses, bosses who don’t value you, and your own nagging self-doubt). Don’t wait. Just do the next right thing. Even if you end up taking two steps forward and one step back, that’s still progress. In Texas, we even call it dancing."
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